The practiced blow job artist can either read their partners reactions while conducting explorations into the different techniques or actually asks before or even during the act to find out what the receiver enjoys. The beginner might want to try a few suggestions to gain the proper information before the action really starts. This also usually has the side benefit of getting most guys hot at the start, especially if you are rubbing the penis and balls while suggesting things.

From a lot of guys point of view maybe the best way to get started would be to start with opening the shirt (or lifting it in the case of T Shirts) and performing little kisses on the chest around the nipples. Some even like it a lot if you suck on their hard nipples and rub your tongue around them and suck them some more, and more and, whoops, sorry I get carried away sometimes. Well, you get the idea. After getting started here a slow descent to the ultimate target can be fun and will usually have most guys up and ready by the time you get there (unless they have to run for their Viagra or Cyalsis or other drug because they can not get it up themselves but that is for another article).

Once you get to where the real action is going to take place you should remember to not forget those two companions to the penis the BALLS. A good blow job usually includes a little kissing and sucking of the testicles. You do not really want to start there, well you can if you want and I don’t know many guys that would really object that strongly, but you definitely need to pay these guys a visit or two during the process.

The actually action on the penis, as most probably know by now is not blowing. However, it should be mentioned that blowing on damp skin is one of the techniques that can be used during the performance of a blow job with great success. Sucking gently on the head after first lubricating it is the best opening gambit down here. Lubrication can be in various forms from the completely natural saliva to manmade gels and creams. Just make sure the manmades are edible. You can find some that actually taste good, too. Once you are started, the penis, if it has not already, should have risen to the occasion. If not, try taking the whole thing in your mouth now (it can get harder to do this deep throat it later on) and the guy will definitely get the idea. Try holding it in your mouth and moving your tongue around it. As the sensations reach that feeble mind of the receiver the penis will start to react and you can use the increasing length to start the sucking action while backing off as it grows. This is a pretty good sensation for the guy. You can also cup and gently squeeze and massage the balls to aid in your efforts. As the penis gets harder take hold of the base and slightly squeeze. This will help him stay harder longer and will provide a great sensation for him.

As things get hotter you can increase your rate of up and down or in and out motion that most people see in the videos. After all, a blow job, in most guys minds is usually considered fucking the mouth of his partner. You can and should vary the rate and amount of suction to keep it going for a little while at least. This allows you to get air and rest in motion while it keeps the guy interested and hard and hot.

As things start to reach a climax you have to come to a decision. Unless you are one of those that use a condom during a blowjob (actually some guys prefer it that way too), you need to decide to swallow or not to swallow. Some enjoy the taste and gobble the cum down without a problem. Some might consider it if the conditions are right (whatever that might really mean). Some will not even consider it (even if they know that they have been getting a little pre-ejaculate during the blow job). If you donot want to make the decision or get surprised you should use a condom. If you think you can take it in your mouth but can not swallow it, then take it and hold it while he is getting off then spit it out in a towel you have placed nearby before starting. Be prepared though because it may take some guys a while to get it all out. Another option, although a little messier, but who really cares at this stage, is to just pull off when he starts and help him along with a little hand job until he is finished. Actually this can be very hot and help him to finish it all as the cum can be aimed up or wherever you want it to go. If a little runs down the shaft, as it probably will, use it to keep the penis wet while finishing. I will tell you the warmth of just issued cum is a turn-on by itself.

Something we did not talk about earlier are the blow job positions available. Many guys really like it when they are lying down and the partner is between the legs and looking up at them. Some guys like it standing up. Even more like it while sitting on the edge of the bed and the partner on the floor in front of them. Some like it with the partner lying next to them. The position you use can be a matter of your environment i.e., public places usually warrant a standing position. Some artists use the straddle them position (remember the old 69) which gives the easiest and deepest penetration due to the natural curve of most penises.

Whichever position is used or techniques are employed, just remember, most guys just want it done so pick the techniques and position you like because I can almost guarantee it that the guy will enjoy it.

Enjoy.