In Part 1 I mentioned some general stuff. Just in case you do not want to go back and read that one (you really should, you know) I will paraphrase myself a little as it was important stuff. You have to spend time on the woman without thought of satisfying yourself. Concentrate on her pleasure when using toys and you will benefit. If you do not or cannot, then you should not be having partner sex, stick to masturbation.

Vibrators are a different story than other toys. Like the dildos, they can be used in private for masturbation, as well as, in a couples (or more) adventure. However, the many different types of vibrators available today allow for a separate article later so for the purposes of this article I will stick with just the use of a basic type. Vibrators have also been included in the construction of other toys to form new and exciting instruments of pleasure but, as with most “tools”, you should now the basics before venturing into the realm of the sophisticated.

For the most part, vibrators are not plunged in and out of the vagina as if they were a cock. You are not trying to simulate fucking with a vibrator. It is more like a massaging action. Do not get me wrong, there are some vibrators that are designed to be inserted and moved in the same actions as a dildo (in fact they are vibrating dildos, yuk, yuk) but there are many that are used to gently massage areas while letting the vibrations increase the sensations of the massaging actions.

Some vibrators have little rabbit ears and a bullet shape that work very well for stimulating the clit and then inserting into the vagina and letting it do a job on the inside. These usually have batteries in a control box with a wire attached to the vibrator. I have found that the wire comes in handy for pulling the vibrator back out after insertion because it usually gets in too far for me to retrieve with my fingers, especially when she starts to move her hips and such.

Whichever vibrator you use, you need to build up the adventure. Maybe start at the back of the neck and shoulders like a regular massage. Use some edible oil to help with a smooth action while rubbing and to eliminate skin burn (you ever get an Indian Burn on the arm when you were a kid or a thigh burn on some plastic or vinyl seat when you are wearing shorts and try to get up or change position. Not very pleasant.). Move down her arms, one at a time and slowly massage her biceps and forearms. Come back to the nape of the neck and slowly move down her spine then back up. Move down and up each side in turn. The purpose is to relax and let the vibrations do their work. Do not try to do one of those Swedish things and dig into the muscles. This should be a gentle, erotic massage and requires a gentle touch and smooth movements.

Slowly move around her side to her chest. Cup her breast and gently massage, then to the other one. Let the vibrator linger over her nipples and gently twist them between your fingers as they grow hard with excitement. Slowly and gently move down her stomach to her mound. Rub the soft mound, letting your fingers and the vibrator alternate slipping between her wet lips. Just tease the clit at this point then come back up to her mound.

Move down the inside of her thighs, one at a time, gently and softly, each time barely grazing her vagina with the vibrator as you move from thigh to thigh. After a couple of passes like this move to the wet spot between her legs and find the little knob of pleasure that by now should be hard as a pebble. Get the vibrator on this and slowly start to rub. Rub in circles, then vertically, then, if possible, slip a little inside her vagina then back to the clit. Then you start rubbing harder and harder and harder. You should be able to tell how hard by her reactions. In a short time she should be clenching her thighs and arching her back and flooding the vibrator and your hand with warm delicious cum.

Oh yeah, vibrators can be used in conjunction with other toys but you should know how to use one all by itself to help her achieve climax if you want to really impress her with your caring.

Well, once again I have taken up enough of your time. Please remember (and I can not say this enough) make sure to communicate with your partner to know what they want to try BEFORE springing thing on them. You can find out what your partner is willing to try in many ways but never try to use a butt plug or anal beads or any toy if she has a real dislike for things like that. Believe it or not there are even some people that will not even consider the use of a toy (shame on them). Boy are they missing out on some fantastic memories!

Enjoy!