In Part 1 I mentioned some general stuff that I think is pretty important. In Part 2 I condensed that into the essence of the meaning of the words. In this Part I think the info bears repeating. Just in case you do not want to go back and read that Part 1 (you really should, you know) If you do not or cannot, then you should not be having partner sex, stick to masturbation If you did happen to read Part 1 then just skip the next paragraph.

When you and she are together and pleasure is the entree on menu you need to be prepared. Believe it or not, guys and gals, most women take longer than men do to reach a climax. If they cum at the same time as a man and the man has not spent at least 10 to 20 minutes on her alone then she is just being nice (for those of you that fail to notice the implication, she is faking it). If you are a woman and your partner is a woman this article really is not for you as you should already know this stuff. You must spend time on her and the time needs to be on things that get her really excited. Just chewing on her breast a little and an occasional finger flick at the clit does not fill the bill. While most guys can get excited by just mentioning sex (I think I remember some study years ago said guys think of sex every 15 seconds, humm) the more time you spend on her, the more you will eventually benefit. I promise. If you do not agree, maybe you should just stick to self-manipulation or abstinence as some bogus religions suggest.

Now, let us get down to one of my favorite subjects. Butt products, for those of you that do not know or were afraid to ask, are basically dildos for the ass (if you generally consider a cylindrical object placed in an erogenous orifice a dildo). They are usually shaped differently than most dildos in that the actual butt dildos are usually smaller in size than a standard (what is standard, huh?) dildo and a butt plug is designed in basically a conical shape with a stop or handle on one end. Then there are the fantastically fun anal beads and beaded instruments. These are just what they sound like, a string of beads that come in various sizes that are inserted into my (whoop, I mean "the") ass and slowly pulled out one at a time. The beaded instruments are basically the same only they are made in one piece with the bead areas cast on them. The use is the same.

Butt dildos are plainly used to ass fuck someone. While that may sound vulgar to some, it is not really. It is just enjoyable. The ass has many, many nerve endings that can be stimulated for sexual purposes just like a vagina. You fuck an ass just as you would a vagina, with care and loving motions. While it is usually tighter than most vaginas, you just have to start off a little slower and make entry a little more gently (a technique that works on the vagina as well) and use a good lube if you must (most recipients would probably appreciate this).

Fingers can be very important in preparing the ass for the toy insertion. Start with one finger with a little saliva or lube on it. Slowly circle the butthole then move in just a little and rim the hole. Come back up and move up the crease of the butt then back down to the hole. Slowly circle it again only this time gently push a little and get the tip of the finger in the butthole. Come back out and circle it again a few times then back in, only a little deeper this time. Again, back out, circle then back in even deeper, gently though, gently. Finally you should have your finger in all the way and your partner should be squirming a bit with pleasure.

It is important to mention that if at any time your partner tells you to stop, YOU STOP. Do not try to force the issue. You are either not being gentle enough or your partner just is not ready for this adventure.

Now, lets get back to the action. If everything is going smoothly, you should be able to keep this action up for a few minutes and in the process slip in another finger, then even possibly another. This will get the butthole ready for the insertion of the dildo or butt plug or those fantastically fun beads. Slowly introduce whichever is the pleasure toy for the event and slowly start to push the tip in while continuing to massage the hole with your other hand. Remember the lube, this is where it really helps (ummm, some of the heating lube might be fun).

Once the toy has been inserted use gently slow motions and start to move it in and out. Move a little up and down. Move a little in and out. Push up against the wall and maybe you will find that ever explosive P Spot, OH YES, YES, YES, whoops dreaming again. Anyway, I think you have the insertion technique down now.

Oh yeah, Butt Plugs can be put in and kept in all day long in some cases in order to stimulate while doing your everyday tasks until other actions can be taken but only if your tasks are not to physical and the Butt Plug is not too heavy (check out that njoy Eleven - 2-1/2 pounds of pleasurable Stainless Steel). Also, they can be inserted then kept in while attention is being paid to the vagina. This can really increase the effect of toys being used in the vagina as there is not much tissue between the two canals and the pressure and contact inside can really be exciting.

I really love butt products myself, as if you could not tell, but this is supposed to be about pleasing her with toys not yourself. Just do not forget that most of these things can be used all by your lonesome if you cannot get together with someone else and it is time to relieve the pressures of modern day life.

Well, once again I have reached my word limit for an article so I must close by saying
ENJOY!